If you have to spice it up you better start with yourself first. During quarantine the people you wanted to leave the house never left. Where did you find the time, passion, and privacy to masturbate? Self care is important and Steph talks about new ways she tried to introduce spontaneity into her routine.
Lesbian Squad Goals
We can’t be the only ones dreaming of that perfect lesbian friend group. Tune in to hear Stephanie’s idea of the most diverse lesbian squad and Nicole’s lesbian run utopian town. We are talking lesbian energy, friend groups, and as always how hard it is to find lesbian friends and lovers. Are you friends with people of one sexuality over another? Would you live in a town populated with only one kind of sexuality? What does your perfect squad look like?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3g3bMqvMTk
Published on August 2, 2019
Steph can always tell by the look in my eyes what I’m thinking or not thinking lol! Did a ton of drugs during quarantine and still do.
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Protest Gemini
Long time fans of the show should know if you see the word Gemini in the title it’s going to be a crazy one. The Gemini Magnet Stephanie of course has another encounter with a Gemini. Who would have guessed it’s the original murder she wrote Gemini herself?!? Stephanie recounts seeing Gemini Carmen again while out of quarantine and also seeing all her past hott girl summer flings. Can she be proud of how she handled running into an old hookup? Is running into Gemini Carmen a sign of the times?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smh6x5jq-PE
Published on June 16, 2020
Queer Sexuality Part 2
Part 2 of our discussion into Queer sexuality. Kyrstin (Portland) is joining us and sharing her journey to identifying as Queer. We talk about the different situations where identifying as Queer would include a variety of different presenting humans. We discuss bisexuality, pansexuality, and how she feels about the term homoflexible. What does being Queer mean to you? What does the term mean to you and your community? Check out Part 1 as well to continue the topic of Queer sexuality.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6YUxidEe0E
Published on May 14, 2019
Queer Sexuality Part 1
Our first guest joins us to talk about Queer sexuality. Kyrstin (Portland) is joining us and sharing her journey to identifying as Queer. We ask her all the questions we have about what Queer means to her and how living and identifying as Queer has impacted her life. She gives us an amazing introduction into Queer topics. We discuss bisexuality, pansexuality, and how she feels about the term homoflexible. What does being Queer mean to you? What does the term mean to you and your community? Make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss Part 2 of this discussion and all our other entertaining episodes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YF7YjZLSqt4
Published on May 13, 2019
Anybody hot and heavy #dating right now? What are some dating ideas for these #virtual times? Is dating even still a thing?
Now that places are opening up is anyone more comfortable dating and going out? Will your dating strategy change?
We talk about how dating and covid have slowed the whole process down in this episode. Check it out and others we filmed during the pandemic!
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Things change fast with the virus. Masks used to be something you maybe wore when you used spray paint. Shoutout to all the preppers who feel real good about their prep and are sitting pretty.
A lot of places are going mask less so I thought about this throwback when masks where seriously life or death.
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Femme Lesbian Struggles
The #femmelesbian struggle is real and we speak about it in this episode of the podcast. Femme Lesbians often talk about how they are erased in the world and community. Could it be the link between heterosexuality and femme women’s style? What are femme lesbians able to do to get others to know they are a part of the QBLTIA+ community? Check out the video and let’s get a conversation going about our femme sisters.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvUBacKuO_0
Published on August 9, 2019
Dating Bipolar
My wife and I worked at the same restaurant for two years before we started dating. Discovering the love of your life right under your nose is one thing but finding out she is bipolar is another. Stephanie and Nicole talk about what it’s like to date someone with Bipolar Disorder. I talk about if given the chance again would I continue to date and fall in love with my wife. Would a serious physical or mental disorder change how you feel and your relationship with someone you’re dating? Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who had major health obstacle in their life?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wd6U_DJaBgs
Published on October 4, 2020
Protest Gemini
Long time fans of the show should know if you see the word Gemini in the title it’s going to be a crazy one. The Gemini Magnet Stephanie of course has another encounter with a Gemini. Who would have guessed it’s the original murder she wrote Gemini herself?!? Stephanie recounts seeing Gemini Carmen again while out of quarantine and also seeing all her past hott girl summer flings. Can she be proud of how she handled running into an old hookup? Is running into Gemini Carmen a sign of the times?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smh6x5jq-PE
Published on June 16, 2020
Operation Gemini Part 2
The legend of Operation Gemini continues. As if she couldn’t do any worst she tops the charts with the worst texts of all time combined with late-night self-centered dates. Stephanie replays the last mission with Gemini and the disappointment that is dating in 2019. Lesbian Zodiac Killer, Sex, Love, Instagram PI Work, Murder Mysteries, and the one Nicole calls Carmen San Diego. We get into a play by play about the ups and downs of what we thought was Tinder magic but turned into a dumpster fire. Is Carmen San Diego looking for casual or disposable sex? Is it hard to be honest during the dating process? Is this op finally done?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFrLfG8WBD0
Published on June 26, 2019
Operation Gemini
Stephanie shares the legend of Operation Gemini. Lesbian Zodiac Killer, Sex, Love, Instagram PI Work, Murder Mysteries, and the one Nicole calls Carmen San Diego. We get into a play by play about the ups and downs of what we thought was Tinder magic but turned into a dumpster fire. Of course we briefly talk about horoscopes and how we always surround ourselves with the same signs. Nicole asks Stephanie to describe her perfect girl and talk about how important it is to find someone who is honest. Is Carmen San Diego playing games? Is it hard to be honest during the dating process? How does everyone feel about Murder?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQOAvNz5Mpc
Published on June 14, 2019